Identity crisis… when you realize that your life and what you are doing is not in alignment with who you are and what you want. This is a moment of awakening.
While this is a moment that should be celebrated, it is often not and instead is filled with fear, uncertainty and confusion.
Who am I? and What do I want? Then the what comes next is: I don’t know!!
Being out of alignment causes you to start questioning everything and this questioning will be the beginning of a journey back to YOU. It will reconnect you (out of alignment you) to YOU (your true self/soul-self) in new wonderfully aligned ways.
When you are out of alignment with who you are nothing works, life is hard, you feel stuck, struggling, tired, overwhelmed and you have no feeling of certainty… you feel lost on top of feeling stuck and it is very unsettling. It’s a hard place to be emotionally as you feel completely numb yet completely alive at the same time… yet sort of in limbo between the two extremes.
You don’t know what to do to make it better. You don’t know who to turn to for answers. You just know you don’t feel right and you have no idea what is going to make your life change, you don’t know where to start and again return to stuck, immobile, just there… bobbing. Alone. You may notice you are not drowning, nor in a state of panic trying to stay afloat… you are simply bobbing.
You realize, maybe for the first time, no one is going to save you, fix you or show you the way… no one can. It’s up to YOU.
Oh God now what??!
Self-doubt and fear set in. Now what? No one did anything to me either… it wasn’t as if I had someone to blame or be mad at… just myself. Now what? How could this be? How could I be living my life so out of alignment with what I truly want to experience in my life? How do I change this? Where do I start?
That moment of awakening, identity crisis, happened to me in 2008 while I was in my kitchen cooking dinner for my family. My children, then ages 4 and 6, were sitting at the kitchen counter doing some kind of project, my husband was in his office working, just off the kitchen, and the TV was broadcasting some news about the world and how awful it was while I stood there in complete shock and awe with these thoughts swirling in my head.
I didn’t want to get divorced nor leave my children nor change my whole life. I wanted to love my life… all of it. Right there in that moment I simply asked, “Grace me with another way, mine is not working!” And I received, immediately, two words… “Be Meaningful.”
“Be Meaningful?” Seriously?? Are you kidding? Aren’t I already meaningful? I’m having a crisis here and YOU say Be Meaningful? Now I really feel like a failure!!! I was hoping for a magic wand, something to use to change my life and YOU gave me Be Meaningful??
Fast forward to today and I do love my life… all of it. I’m still married and still have my children. AND those two words, Be Meaningful, work like a magic wand… sprinkling magic into your life and transforming it from reacting to what you don’t want into creating what you do want. Those two words transform you and your life experience, and while they aren’t magic, your life becomes magical. It’s as if nothing changes, yet everything changes.
I have created a new way to live and experience my life by having all I do Be Meaningful. I have developed a step-by-step process where you too can live the life you have always dreamed about, but didn’t know how to create. Or maybe you’ve tried but got overwhelmed or lost trying, or you couldn’t sustain the changes needed. I can lead you on a journey, The Be Meaningful journey, back to YOU… one meaningful to-do at a time.
This journey will work in your life as you need it too. These two words create a meaningful connection between you + YOU. A connection from life as usual and the life you are craving. It’s really a connection between your ego and your soul; A connection between your head and your heart; A connection between your man-made self and your God-made self. These two words create a partnership where you + YOU work together to consciously create a life YOU love.
Again it is not magic as you will have to show up and do the work, but the journey of reconnection using these two words, Be Meaningful, is a gentle and nurturing one. It is a journey that works in your own timing, and in your own kind of meaningful way. It works at the need level, or soul level. You will align the needs of your soul to the wants of your ego to create a beautiful partnership and will then be able to co-create with the Universe in a way that feels magical. Being in alignment with who you are and what you want does feel like you died and went to heaven while here on earth.
These two words, Be Meaningful, will remove any hidden blocks to having the life you love. It will heal any hidden pain from the past that limits your ability to experience what you want. It will simultaneously have you create new habits and routines that support this new aligned YOU, and the journey itself, the process of actually learning how to “add the meaningful” to your to-do’s teaches you new life skills so that you can “pedal with joy” in your life consistently… even when the road gets bumpy or you hit a pothole.
Your life will feel magical and you will experience awe and wonder every single day. This is what we are here to experience, anything other than this means you are out of alignment with who you are. Are your ready to create a life YOU love? Are you ready to end suffering and struggling? Are you ready to return to joy? Are you ready to live a life aligned with your best, true self? Say “YES!” and I’ll show you how!!
Contact me today and I’ll get you started on your own kind of Be Meaningful journey. Don’t wait.
We only have one life… make sure it is a life YOU love!!
Love, Kristi
